Pregnancy Doesn't Agree With Me?

I was at the local coffee shop today with my friend when the barista looked at me and said "pregnancy doesn't agree with you!" I was shocked. I didn't know what to say. Really? She went on to tell me I looked like death. WOW! This is getting worse. I could not believe what I was hearing so I started defending myself by saying. I looked great when I was pregnant with Bao. I was never sick or tired and maybe it's a boy. ha-ha! Even though I don't believe that. I thought I looked okay to go out of the house. Maybe not, maybe I should just stay inside for the entire nine months and not scare anyone with my looks! Death? Really? In my defense I get up at 4:20 Mon, Wed, and Fri to open the gym and I don't get to nap until 11 or 12 and that's only for a hour. I am also chasing around a 16 mo. old that has more energy than a red-bull. I don't drink caffeine when I am pregnant. What does a person do? Hopefully this too shall pass. Almost out of the 1st trimester completely and hopefully things look up. Including my looks! ha-ha